Technically, G.G, Grandma Georgia, or just Granny, as she is known, is my mom's mom. This is a picture of her with my dad last summer at a family reunion. Yes, it's a long story, but I loved this picture of her, and it's my most recent! So we'll start with this one!
Grandma has been there with me from the start... (Grandpa Hank holding me. Don't worry, he wasn't much of a smiler! I'm sure he was thrilled). But look at G.G's face...That's the face every grand kid wants to see when their grandparents look at them!

And she has continued to look at me that way through all the most important days of my life! Here are the 3 generations of, what I think are, amazing women! My mom, me, and granny on my wedding day!

I know somewhere are more photos that show a lifetime of this special lady. But since I have very few of those, I wanted to share some of the important, and not so important yet priceless, things my grandma has taught me through the 30 years I've been a part of her life.
*A love of reading! It took me a while to really love it, but now I have a hard time not having something that is on my currently reading or read list.
*how to find beauty in just about everything. If it wasn't for her, I would find the desert-y place in which I live to be a bland colored waste land compared to the western side of Oregon (where she lives) with all it's luscious greenery and colorful plant life everywhere! But alas, she has shown me that there really is a special kind of beauty to most places, even the desert!
*She taught me, by example, that it's ok to just be who you are. In fact, it's even fun to make people wonder a little bit! Mystery isn't a bad thing! For example, she donned a fake nose ring, and overalls if I remember correctly,when we went to New York with my high school drama department! Yah, people wondered...her family mostly! But I suppose less people wonder about such things in a big city like New York!
*She had a big part in the introduction and continuing process of my being able to have more culture in my life. It started with seeing my very first ballet when I was about 4 and continued with other Broadway shows, art exhibits, photography lessons (which I need more of), trying new foods, and the like!
*How to make the best darn blueberry cobbler I have ever tasted! Possibly, the best anyone has ever tasted. I haven't met anyone yet who doesn't like it! It helped that for many years she had several blueberry bushes right outside her back door! There's nothing quite like fresh blueberries!
*How to love on grand kids. Ok so I don't have any yet, but I will someday! I have fond memories of sliding into bed with her and grandpa in the early hours of the morning. My cousins and I (usually me and Jessica), would sneak in to their bedroom and wait for the sign of the bed covers lifting up as the "o.k." to come on in! Then she would slap grandpa on the rear, and say,"Move over Hank!" There would be some grumbling and eventually he would surrender to the unwanted guests, sit up, put on his support hose, get dressed and start his work day! I always loved that time with grandma. I also remember every time she held my hand she would almost rub the skin off the top of my hand from her thumb going back and forth. Now that I have sweet little soft hands in my house I understand the need to do just that! Another thing is that no one has ever been too old to sit on grandma's lap! She loves it, for a short time at least. We're not exactly 30 pounds anymore!
*One of the most important lessons is one on driving. Particularly in Portland or any other large city. The lesson goes like this: anytime you are turning on to a major road or highway, you "Look left and drive like hell!" That has been a priceless lesson and one that I'm sure my state patrolman brother-in-law would completely appreciate! :)
*One more thing about my grandma that I appreciate is her understanding of what is important to each of her different grandchildren. On my wedding day, she presented me with a beautiful blue flower serving tray that was her mother's and the bible with side carrying purse that her traveling preacher father used to own. How I treasure those parts of her and my history! She has given me several things that have given me a link to the past and the people that are a part of who I am. I will always be grateful for her generosity to share those precious bits of history with me...along with all the wonderful stories!
I'm sure if I thought long and hard, I could come up with many more examples, fun stories, and tid bits of knowledge that has been given me by my grandma! But I have, what I lovingly refer to as, "placenta brain" and therefore it takes a lot more energy than I have these days to think at all! Nevermind, trying to think BACK!
~GRANDMA: I wish you a wonderful 80th birthday and many, many more! I Love You!P.S.There is a better gift to follow, it may take a while and you may very well not receive it until your next birthday! But, it will be wonderful! We wish we could be there with you celebrating at the coast! Have fun and get sand in places you would rather not...just for us!!!